Questions & Answers by Spirit Guides
2013-02-16
Question: I have had my heart broken about a year ago and I have trouble letting go of him. He was the one I was gonna live my life with and I can't really understand how it could be like this. He was my lover and best friend. I have also lost my work and dont really know what I wanna do now. It's like I lost my will to go on. I'm stuck! I'm so afraid that I'll choose the wrong thing, and that I'll never will be able to love again. What can I do to move forward and find my self again? What am I supposed to to be doing...
Spirit Guide answer:
We understand your pain and your confusion. What you thought was right and good for you is not manifesting as you wish. We gently ask you to let go of what you thought was going to bring you happiness. Let go and make space for a New Life. Look inside and really discover your own Maginificent Resources. You are so Wise, so Powerful, so Strong.
Get in touch with all of your inner qualities and use them. Never count on outer support or outer circumstances to create stability or a life you want. All your strengths are inside you. They are always inside you. Remember this at all times. You are never alone, never abandoned. We are always by your side. We are always your allies. Always. Feel us. Include us more in your life. Ask us for strength and LOVE when that is what you need.
Don’t do this alone. Don’t live alone. We love to support you and guide you towards your Highest Good, towards your Most Beautiful Dream Life. Ask us and we are more than willing to work with you. Ask. And embrace your own strength, your own power.
Love is always around you and inside you. Always. No matter what you experience or who you are with. Love does not depend on anyone else but YOU. Your willingness to open up and RECEIVE love is what really counts. Open up and RECEIVE. Don’t let anything else stand in your way. Don’t let anything else become an obstacle. We LOVE you! Always. Have faith in YOU, sweet heart.
Camilla's comment: You are so right! With all these things happening I'm learning more and more about my self. I learnt that I somehow am afraid of receiving love. I'm practising receiving and trying to ask my self if this is really what I want or just thinking I want. I have also started asking for help and receiving it. I can see things a lot brighter now and want to belive that Everything will turn out great! Thank you very much! Love, Camilla
2013-01-25
Question: The past 3 years have been filled with significant change - the birth of my two children, a cross-country move, a career change, and divorce. Although it has been a challenging time, I feel that I have learned many important lessons (and am still learning), and am beginning to really love and care for myself again, as I hadn't for so long. I have been receiving what I thought were very clear messages from my angels and spirit guides, but sometimes I second guess that and think it is my imagination, because it is all so clear. So I am looking for guidance with my love life - for clarity around a man from my past with whom I recently reconnected, and we had what I felt was a strong soul mate, or even twin soul, connection but it quickly fizzled and I tried too hard to hold on - and from my perspective it got rather messy, as I acted in ways that are very uncharacteristic of me, and he never responded at all to any of it. Then it was as if I was looking in a mirror, and all my "stuff" came up at once for immediate attention and healing - it was a very strange and rather emotionally chaotic time, and I was guided to let go, send him love, forgive, and focus on loving myself, all of which I have done and am doing. I knew deep down I wasn't ready to start dating again so soon after my divorce, but I felt inexplicably drawn to him, and still am drawn to him. Was this, or is this, all one-sided, or was the connection real, and is there more to this story? He currently is going though some very difficult life changes himself. Thank you!/Christina
Spirit Guide answer: Soul mates don't neccesarily means smooth running. Relationships are sometimes hard and you need to work on them - or rather work on you. What do you want out of life? What are your dreams? What kind of relationship do you want? Work towards your goals and dreams and don't accept any less than what you need to be free. Life lessons are all well, but you also need to know what you want. Listen within, set time apart for you and listen to that deep and loving voice which you know so well. Cleanse your mind and open your heart to love. Spirit Guides will help you in this. Right or wrong is not an issue. Following your heart is. Sometimes following your heart means the road twists and turns before you see the light. Learning is loving and living. Take care of your heart and soul.
Christina's comment: Thank you so much for this. I have in fact felt much confusion about what I want, and have been feeling the pull to clear out space for myself, so that I can listen, feel, and know what I want vs. what society tells me I should want -- and to release whatever is in my life that is not serving me and moving me towards feeling peaceful, loving, and free. I love the guidance around the issue not being about right or wrong, but rather about following my heart. That really resonates with me, and with this situation. I so much appreciate your answer to this, and already feel a sense of clarity and release. xoxo - Christina
2013-01-09
Question: Since I have little or no relationship with my father; How do I handle myself in my situation now that he wants to be in touch? How do I open myself up so that I may shine and choose the path of self-love instead of hide away? Is there anything I need to know about the situation that I'm not seeing? Could this potentially be dangerous? Thank you./Silvra
Spirit Guides answer: This is fully your choice and you can step away from this relationship anytime you wish to do so. You decide the rules. A lot can be healed in you if you agree to meet with your father again but take care of yourself first. He is not your responsibility. Set your own boundaries and honour them always. Do not comprompise. Stay true to yourself first. Your father has changed, matured, but some parts of him are the same. Take the lead when developing this relationship and stand in your own light. This is so important. So important. Listen very closely to the whispers of your Soul and take the time you need to trust him again. You decide. You are free now. You are an adult. It is 100% your choice. Listen and follow your own voice, your own light. You have the right to create a relationship on your terms now. Remember this. Surround yourself with love and choose the light.
Silvra's comment: As I read this, I feel reassured. What you say confirms some things I've been feeling and thinking, but even more importantly it's bringing order to the chaos in my mind. I've already taken some steps towards the healing. I choose love, I choose light. Thank you for your words, I really feel that they've served me well to read. With Love /Silvra
2012-12-27
Question: When will I be doing what I love, my passion as my career? I am burned out with what I am doing and feel paralyzed by fear and feel I can't financially take that leap of faith to go on my own with my own business... I want to put more time into my dream but I'm burned out and my creative energy is gone by the time I'm done with my real job and other life stuff (like walking the dog, making dinner, volunteering...ect). There is a position I am dreaming about if you will - but it would involve the organization writing a grant for my position so not really sure if that will ever happen../Natalie
Spirit Guides answer: We can see your frustration and determination fighting with each other. The number 12 is very clear as in 2012. Meaning now is the time to take action don't wait cause it will only weigh you down. If you start making shifts this year things will evolve in 2013. Take one step at a time though, but do it now. Set up a plan for you to move towards your life purpose. You already have a plan at the back of your head, you only need to trust in it. We believe in you. Start with changing jobs to upbuild your energies. Then start moving towards your dream goal. You can do it, we believe in you!
Natalie's comment: Thank you for responding to this question! This was so sweet of you!
2012-12-14
Question: I have suffered a number of health challenges over the years, and I'm going through one right now. The question I would like to have answered, if you would, is whether my path to healing is more about dealing with the emotions, beliefs or traumas that may have caused these challenges, or more about working towards increasing my 'enlightenment' and therefore letting go of the things I don't need any more simply by moving above them - or is there another lesson to be learned or path to take that will help me more? /Thank you Karen x
Spirit Guides answer: You know what caused your pain so you don't have to gack and dwell in that space anymore. And you cannot rise above the pain unless you deny it. You have chosen a brave and honest path in this life so we would encourage you to feel the pain, to allow all your feelings and all the pain to be felt as deeply as you can. Accept these feelings. Accept that they are inside you right now. And slowly let them melt away. It is when you fully embrace all your darkest and most painful parts that they can be released. So, accept and release. We send you so much love on your brave path in this life. And don't forget to ask for help. We are always here for you. Always. Ask for help and accept it. Acceptance is so important.
Karen's comment: Thank you so much for your reply. It has confirmed that the work I have been doing in releasing old pain and trauma is the way to go, so I haven't been wasting my time for the last several years! It's nice to know that my thoughts and ideas on this set of challenges are more or less correct, and also that the help I've been asking for is there when I am able to connect with it.
2012-12-10
Question: Hi. I had a boyfriend for 2 years and a half.. in the latter end of our relationship he cheated and lied many times. We broke up and he is now in Italy while i am in UAE but i cannot seem to forget him. I am already 29. Is he the one for me and if not will i ever get married? Thank you/Eli
Spirit Guide Answer: No, he seems not right for you at this stage. What the future holds might be another thing. But this man needed to move on and find his path in life. The important thing is to forgive him in your heart, so that you can move on. Not easy but necessary. Send love and forgiveness energy into the universe and ask the guides and angels for cleansing. There's another man coming your way soon, if you will marry him or not is your choice. It is possible. He seems stable, calm and light in energy.
Eli's comment: Thank you very much for answering my question. I found a peace of mind and will do so as you have suggested.
2012-12-05
Question: I was always a very disciplined, considerate, thoughtful, responsible and creative person and I used to give my 100* in whatever I would do. In the past some time, I feel I am not putting in my best. I feel I have sort of become impulsive... less thoughtful and less enthusiastic. I keep feeling like I deserve a break (break from EVERYTHING ) - I never really get it.. probably because the sense of doership is too much...I am confused about what I am doing in my life.. I am fearful about the future.. Please advise./B. A.
Spirit Guides answer: Rest assure that your future is bright. Choose light and go towards things that are good for you. Your body tells you to stop when it's time. Listen to it. Many times you rush ahead and don't listen. Bright light will come in the shape of people around you. They will give you good advice, a shoulder to cry on, a whisper with hope and truth. We send these people to you to comfort you. You can choose your own future. We will help you but the choices are yours. Don't worry so much, trust in your intuition. Sleep is important at this stage. Don't make too many decisions until you are stronger.
2012-11-23
Question: Do I forget my dreams of travelling and rent the flat I've been offered?/Emma
Spirit Guide Answer: Emma, you are going through such a big change and so much pain and disappointment right now that what you need to do first is to take very good care fo yourself. Don't beat yourself up. Don't judge yourself so harshly. Come back into your body and into this life again. Practice extreme self care and rebuild your strength with the help from Nature. Start from step 1 and take it gradually from there. You are on a healing journey. Be gentle with yourself. It is not too late to live your dreams. It is never too late. Never. But start with you. Take care of yourself first. It has to start there. Thank you.
Emma's comment: What i am gaining from these lovely healing words is that it's okay to be where i am, okay to feel hurt, let down and a bit broken, but I can fix myself, slowly and carefully and it will all be okay I just need to be patient and rebuild and be kind and nature will support and bring me stength and healing. Much love to you both and thanks so much, every best love and wish for Soultribe to flourish and help heal xx
2012-11-13
Question: I have been trying and wanting for so long to work through my emotional problems and past. to become a lightworker. i keep stumbling. i feel like a small child lagging behind. I guess i just want to know if there is i will be able to achieve the life i so desperately want and need or not? thank you./Jan
Spirit Guide Answer: You are the light that you so desperately want and wish to be. Sometimes we do not see the forrest for all the trees and that is the stage you are in right now. You need to clear some space around you and losen up some knots. You have to be patient and work on your energies first. Yes you are a child but you are also an old wise soul and these two roles need to meet and blend. Don't work so hard. Light work comes easily and naturally, if only you let go of fear and competition. Open up and let spirit flow. Write to release, with a pen.
Jan's comment: thank you, i guess i was just hoping for some inspiration to release my fears and relieve my depression.
2012-11-12
Question: I have recently pulled away from my circle of friends and am now spending my time alone, I feel so at peace at the moment without a care in the world and my usual anxiety has left me. I was suffocating in their presence, not a feeling you shold have with you best friends. Althought this feels so right and wonderful it also feels so wrong like Im some kind of 'bitch' to have moved along like this. I thought these were my soul sisters who I would love spending my time with but I had become so uncomfortable with the energy I was surrounded with. Help me understand what has happened and if Im doing this from a bad attitude or a natural change in vibration?? Thankyou so much xxx/S
Spirit Guides answer: You are listening to you for the first time. This is what it is like. You are your most important guide and teacher. You are in charge. What are your needs? What are your dreams? That is your focus right now. All is well. All is good. Always act from love and the love will spread to the people around you. In time. People are always around you to teach you valuable lessons. Take it in and be thankful for the knowledge they spread. Take it to heart and do what is right for you. Find your core and be who you are. Be at ease and listen within. No shame only love.
S's comment: Listening to myself for the first time is so amazingly correct, no wonder it feels so odd. Thank you so much for confirming what I felt, your answer has helped me realise I am getting closer and closer to my core being, I have been wrestling with this issue for months now and can finally relax and just be in my world instead of questioning so much. Thank you for that peace xxx/S
2012-11-10
Question: Hi, I'd like to know the name of my Spirit Guide and how I best can I ask for guidance.
Thanks./G
Spirit Guides answer: His name is Michael and He speaks to you through your Dreams. Sometimes you don't understand the meaning of your dreams but keep writing down the symbols and clues to your life. The answers you are looking for will come. Keep writing and they will come.
2012-10-26
Question: Hi and thank you for this gift! My husband died very unexpectedly this year. Our daughter is 14. I would like to know anything to help her please. Thank you girls and guides/Jule
Spirit Guides answer: You are not alone. We are here with you to comfort and support you and your daughter. It is hard to understand, for you, what is the meaning of this tragic event. We wish to let you know, there is a meaning to all things in life, no matter how hard they appear. Nothing is meaningless. You need to know this. Your family has extra support from the guides through these hard times. Don't give up. Move on in time. Take your time and ask people for the help that you need to get by. Now is the time to ask for help. Don't manage all by yourself. Light is coming your way.
Jule's comment: It's lovely to be reminded that we have extra support at this time. "Nothing is meaningless" is a beautiful mantra. I do need to ask for more help! Thank you to you and your guides for your help. Jule xx
2012-10-24
Question: How can I hear my guides and angels more clearly? I often feel like our communication is one way! Do you have any tips? /Lily
Answer: We are always here for you and want you to hear and feel our presence. It is our purpose to open a more clear channel for you to communicate through. Be with us, sit in the light and simply ask for our presence. Don't try so hard. Take what you receive and don't push it. It will come naturally if you let it. We are always with you don't doubt it for a second. You are your own most important channel. We wish to spend time with you. Let us in and listen in many ways, it doesn't have to be the way you expect. A song, a letter, a thought an image, an experience in nature. We communicate on many different levels.
Lily's comment: Thank you for your wise words. I will try to spend some time sitting quietly without trying to think about anything and invite my angels in and wait and see. I will be patient and gentle with myself and not force anything. /Lily
October
Question: How do other people see me and why? /Marina
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: Try not to focus on that. You should instead focus on being you. You are a wonderful person with a big heart. You should trust your intuition more than what other people think of you. You have a strong feminine power (girl power). Use it. It's magical.
Marina comments: Thank you I will really try and use my feminine power, it makes me happy to hear it.
Question: I can feel imbalances in my body, causing aches and pains all over, is there anything I can do apart from going to a doctor? /Malin B
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: Your body will heal, you are worn down. At the same time you have a lot of energy which makes you take on more than you can handle. You have to unwind. Sit down and meditate even though you don't have the patience to do so. You have to find your inner balance and search for silent moments. It is important now more than ever when you are so busy. Healing is also good for you. You can go to a healer or heal yourself.
Malin B comments: I am a very active and impatient person. I rarely sit down, not even to watch a film. There is always something to do until I literally fall into bed. Since this I have started to teach my self to sit down and do nothing. It is hard and very difficult to do. I am getting better at it but have yet not perfected it. However I can feel the benefits in my body. My arthorithis in my knees and fingers are not as sore any more. I ask for help in my meditation, mostly for my body to heal so I can do things with and for my children and it works. I was up several times a night with pain before, that is almost all gone. I will change my life, I refuse to be part of this rat race, run in the squirrel wheel etc. I will live my life from now on.
Question: My husband and I have a relationship with many ups and downs, why? Are we meant to be? What are our souls like and what does our future hold? Who is he? /Marina
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: He is there for you but seems to read you and is affected a lot by your moods. He sometimes try to pull away when he doesn't know how to handle his emotions and his feelings for you. He seems like a true-hearted and warm person. But your misunderstandings makes your relationship a bit jumpy. Make sure you are open towards each other and more straight in your communication. Truly open up your heart and explain how you feel so that he really understands. Face each other and be honest. Then all will be fine.
Marina comments: The emotion is beautiful when I read what you have channelled about my husband, he is a true-hearted person who is kind to everyone. You were right about the patterns in our relationship and the way I am towards him. It is frustrating some times
Question: Do I have someone watching over me? /Malin B
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: You have many guardian angels and/or guides. You have a lot of light around you. Many spirits want to come near you. You seem like an "open" person and therefore you can sense them. A woman seems connected to you, possibly your grandmother. She is watching over you and follow you wherever you move. She is kind and considerate, likes your children a lot and pat their little heads when the're asleep. Nothing to worry about, she loves you and cares for you.
Malin B comments: It is wonderful to read what you write about me. Everything rings true. There have been so many different people that have told me my grandmother is watching over me. I love my grandmother and enjoy having her spirit around me. I was afraid she'd left me so I'm glad to know she's still around. I would like her to stay if possible. She gives me strength.
Question: My relationship with my mum is a bit distant, why? How does she see it? How does she want things differently? /Marina
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: You are a person with strong energies which affect people around you, they some times seem a bit taken with you and insecure on how to act around you, some then pull away. She does too. She's confused but loves you. She seems like a gentle and a bit quiet person who awaits your initiative. Take it! Tell her how you feel. She is waiting for you and loves you.
Marina comments: My mum's and my relationship is interesting. I will give it a go...
Question: Is it a wise decision for us to move abroad? /Malin B
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: It is a choice you're making and every action has consequenses like all choices in life. There is no right or wrong. It seems to me it is something you need (have) to do for a while. (But) I can also see you returning within a few years. Try it! (Everythings is allowed) All is ok. You will find a lot of positives with moving. You will grow as a person and develop as an individual. You will find new roads to travel and be affected by many new exciting persons in a new direction. Perhaps running your own business or working with your hands. Creative work.
Malin B: Moving abroad is something I've wanted for a long time, moving home so to speak. With four children this has been an emotional decision. I've worked within commercial businesses for so long. Done a good job, but never with my heart. My biggest dream is to be able to use my hands, work with what I love, weaving, sowing, knitting, etc etc. Coming to a "new" country I will now do it, for sure.
Question: I have had my heart broken about a year ago and I have trouble letting go of him. He was the one I was gonna live my life with and I can't really understand how it could be like this. He was my lover and best friend. I have also lost my work and dont really know what I wanna do now. It's like I lost my will to go on. I'm stuck! I'm so afraid that I'll choose the wrong thing, and that I'll never will be able to love again. What can I do to move forward and find my self again? What am I supposed to to be doing...
Spirit Guide answer:
We understand your pain and your confusion. What you thought was right and good for you is not manifesting as you wish. We gently ask you to let go of what you thought was going to bring you happiness. Let go and make space for a New Life. Look inside and really discover your own Maginificent Resources. You are so Wise, so Powerful, so Strong.
Get in touch with all of your inner qualities and use them. Never count on outer support or outer circumstances to create stability or a life you want. All your strengths are inside you. They are always inside you. Remember this at all times. You are never alone, never abandoned. We are always by your side. We are always your allies. Always. Feel us. Include us more in your life. Ask us for strength and LOVE when that is what you need.
Don’t do this alone. Don’t live alone. We love to support you and guide you towards your Highest Good, towards your Most Beautiful Dream Life. Ask us and we are more than willing to work with you. Ask. And embrace your own strength, your own power.
Love is always around you and inside you. Always. No matter what you experience or who you are with. Love does not depend on anyone else but YOU. Your willingness to open up and RECEIVE love is what really counts. Open up and RECEIVE. Don’t let anything else stand in your way. Don’t let anything else become an obstacle. We LOVE you! Always. Have faith in YOU, sweet heart.
Camilla's comment: You are so right! With all these things happening I'm learning more and more about my self. I learnt that I somehow am afraid of receiving love. I'm practising receiving and trying to ask my self if this is really what I want or just thinking I want. I have also started asking for help and receiving it. I can see things a lot brighter now and want to belive that Everything will turn out great! Thank you very much! Love, Camilla
2013-01-25
Question: The past 3 years have been filled with significant change - the birth of my two children, a cross-country move, a career change, and divorce. Although it has been a challenging time, I feel that I have learned many important lessons (and am still learning), and am beginning to really love and care for myself again, as I hadn't for so long. I have been receiving what I thought were very clear messages from my angels and spirit guides, but sometimes I second guess that and think it is my imagination, because it is all so clear. So I am looking for guidance with my love life - for clarity around a man from my past with whom I recently reconnected, and we had what I felt was a strong soul mate, or even twin soul, connection but it quickly fizzled and I tried too hard to hold on - and from my perspective it got rather messy, as I acted in ways that are very uncharacteristic of me, and he never responded at all to any of it. Then it was as if I was looking in a mirror, and all my "stuff" came up at once for immediate attention and healing - it was a very strange and rather emotionally chaotic time, and I was guided to let go, send him love, forgive, and focus on loving myself, all of which I have done and am doing. I knew deep down I wasn't ready to start dating again so soon after my divorce, but I felt inexplicably drawn to him, and still am drawn to him. Was this, or is this, all one-sided, or was the connection real, and is there more to this story? He currently is going though some very difficult life changes himself. Thank you!/Christina
Spirit Guide answer: Soul mates don't neccesarily means smooth running. Relationships are sometimes hard and you need to work on them - or rather work on you. What do you want out of life? What are your dreams? What kind of relationship do you want? Work towards your goals and dreams and don't accept any less than what you need to be free. Life lessons are all well, but you also need to know what you want. Listen within, set time apart for you and listen to that deep and loving voice which you know so well. Cleanse your mind and open your heart to love. Spirit Guides will help you in this. Right or wrong is not an issue. Following your heart is. Sometimes following your heart means the road twists and turns before you see the light. Learning is loving and living. Take care of your heart and soul.
Christina's comment: Thank you so much for this. I have in fact felt much confusion about what I want, and have been feeling the pull to clear out space for myself, so that I can listen, feel, and know what I want vs. what society tells me I should want -- and to release whatever is in my life that is not serving me and moving me towards feeling peaceful, loving, and free. I love the guidance around the issue not being about right or wrong, but rather about following my heart. That really resonates with me, and with this situation. I so much appreciate your answer to this, and already feel a sense of clarity and release. xoxo - Christina
2013-01-09
Question: Since I have little or no relationship with my father; How do I handle myself in my situation now that he wants to be in touch? How do I open myself up so that I may shine and choose the path of self-love instead of hide away? Is there anything I need to know about the situation that I'm not seeing? Could this potentially be dangerous? Thank you./Silvra
Spirit Guides answer: This is fully your choice and you can step away from this relationship anytime you wish to do so. You decide the rules. A lot can be healed in you if you agree to meet with your father again but take care of yourself first. He is not your responsibility. Set your own boundaries and honour them always. Do not comprompise. Stay true to yourself first. Your father has changed, matured, but some parts of him are the same. Take the lead when developing this relationship and stand in your own light. This is so important. So important. Listen very closely to the whispers of your Soul and take the time you need to trust him again. You decide. You are free now. You are an adult. It is 100% your choice. Listen and follow your own voice, your own light. You have the right to create a relationship on your terms now. Remember this. Surround yourself with love and choose the light.
Silvra's comment: As I read this, I feel reassured. What you say confirms some things I've been feeling and thinking, but even more importantly it's bringing order to the chaos in my mind. I've already taken some steps towards the healing. I choose love, I choose light. Thank you for your words, I really feel that they've served me well to read. With Love /Silvra
2012-12-27
Question: When will I be doing what I love, my passion as my career? I am burned out with what I am doing and feel paralyzed by fear and feel I can't financially take that leap of faith to go on my own with my own business... I want to put more time into my dream but I'm burned out and my creative energy is gone by the time I'm done with my real job and other life stuff (like walking the dog, making dinner, volunteering...ect). There is a position I am dreaming about if you will - but it would involve the organization writing a grant for my position so not really sure if that will ever happen../Natalie
Spirit Guides answer: We can see your frustration and determination fighting with each other. The number 12 is very clear as in 2012. Meaning now is the time to take action don't wait cause it will only weigh you down. If you start making shifts this year things will evolve in 2013. Take one step at a time though, but do it now. Set up a plan for you to move towards your life purpose. You already have a plan at the back of your head, you only need to trust in it. We believe in you. Start with changing jobs to upbuild your energies. Then start moving towards your dream goal. You can do it, we believe in you!
Natalie's comment: Thank you for responding to this question! This was so sweet of you!
2012-12-14
Question: I have suffered a number of health challenges over the years, and I'm going through one right now. The question I would like to have answered, if you would, is whether my path to healing is more about dealing with the emotions, beliefs or traumas that may have caused these challenges, or more about working towards increasing my 'enlightenment' and therefore letting go of the things I don't need any more simply by moving above them - or is there another lesson to be learned or path to take that will help me more? /Thank you Karen x
Spirit Guides answer: You know what caused your pain so you don't have to gack and dwell in that space anymore. And you cannot rise above the pain unless you deny it. You have chosen a brave and honest path in this life so we would encourage you to feel the pain, to allow all your feelings and all the pain to be felt as deeply as you can. Accept these feelings. Accept that they are inside you right now. And slowly let them melt away. It is when you fully embrace all your darkest and most painful parts that they can be released. So, accept and release. We send you so much love on your brave path in this life. And don't forget to ask for help. We are always here for you. Always. Ask for help and accept it. Acceptance is so important.
Karen's comment: Thank you so much for your reply. It has confirmed that the work I have been doing in releasing old pain and trauma is the way to go, so I haven't been wasting my time for the last several years! It's nice to know that my thoughts and ideas on this set of challenges are more or less correct, and also that the help I've been asking for is there when I am able to connect with it.
2012-12-10
Question: Hi. I had a boyfriend for 2 years and a half.. in the latter end of our relationship he cheated and lied many times. We broke up and he is now in Italy while i am in UAE but i cannot seem to forget him. I am already 29. Is he the one for me and if not will i ever get married? Thank you/Eli
Spirit Guide Answer: No, he seems not right for you at this stage. What the future holds might be another thing. But this man needed to move on and find his path in life. The important thing is to forgive him in your heart, so that you can move on. Not easy but necessary. Send love and forgiveness energy into the universe and ask the guides and angels for cleansing. There's another man coming your way soon, if you will marry him or not is your choice. It is possible. He seems stable, calm and light in energy.
Eli's comment: Thank you very much for answering my question. I found a peace of mind and will do so as you have suggested.
2012-12-05
Question: I was always a very disciplined, considerate, thoughtful, responsible and creative person and I used to give my 100* in whatever I would do. In the past some time, I feel I am not putting in my best. I feel I have sort of become impulsive... less thoughtful and less enthusiastic. I keep feeling like I deserve a break (break from EVERYTHING ) - I never really get it.. probably because the sense of doership is too much...I am confused about what I am doing in my life.. I am fearful about the future.. Please advise./B. A.
Spirit Guides answer: Rest assure that your future is bright. Choose light and go towards things that are good for you. Your body tells you to stop when it's time. Listen to it. Many times you rush ahead and don't listen. Bright light will come in the shape of people around you. They will give you good advice, a shoulder to cry on, a whisper with hope and truth. We send these people to you to comfort you. You can choose your own future. We will help you but the choices are yours. Don't worry so much, trust in your intuition. Sleep is important at this stage. Don't make too many decisions until you are stronger.
2012-11-23
Question: Do I forget my dreams of travelling and rent the flat I've been offered?/Emma
Spirit Guide Answer: Emma, you are going through such a big change and so much pain and disappointment right now that what you need to do first is to take very good care fo yourself. Don't beat yourself up. Don't judge yourself so harshly. Come back into your body and into this life again. Practice extreme self care and rebuild your strength with the help from Nature. Start from step 1 and take it gradually from there. You are on a healing journey. Be gentle with yourself. It is not too late to live your dreams. It is never too late. Never. But start with you. Take care of yourself first. It has to start there. Thank you.
Emma's comment: What i am gaining from these lovely healing words is that it's okay to be where i am, okay to feel hurt, let down and a bit broken, but I can fix myself, slowly and carefully and it will all be okay I just need to be patient and rebuild and be kind and nature will support and bring me stength and healing. Much love to you both and thanks so much, every best love and wish for Soultribe to flourish and help heal xx
2012-11-13
Question: I have been trying and wanting for so long to work through my emotional problems and past. to become a lightworker. i keep stumbling. i feel like a small child lagging behind. I guess i just want to know if there is i will be able to achieve the life i so desperately want and need or not? thank you./Jan
Spirit Guide Answer: You are the light that you so desperately want and wish to be. Sometimes we do not see the forrest for all the trees and that is the stage you are in right now. You need to clear some space around you and losen up some knots. You have to be patient and work on your energies first. Yes you are a child but you are also an old wise soul and these two roles need to meet and blend. Don't work so hard. Light work comes easily and naturally, if only you let go of fear and competition. Open up and let spirit flow. Write to release, with a pen.
Jan's comment: thank you, i guess i was just hoping for some inspiration to release my fears and relieve my depression.
2012-11-12
Question: I have recently pulled away from my circle of friends and am now spending my time alone, I feel so at peace at the moment without a care in the world and my usual anxiety has left me. I was suffocating in their presence, not a feeling you shold have with you best friends. Althought this feels so right and wonderful it also feels so wrong like Im some kind of 'bitch' to have moved along like this. I thought these were my soul sisters who I would love spending my time with but I had become so uncomfortable with the energy I was surrounded with. Help me understand what has happened and if Im doing this from a bad attitude or a natural change in vibration?? Thankyou so much xxx/S
Spirit Guides answer: You are listening to you for the first time. This is what it is like. You are your most important guide and teacher. You are in charge. What are your needs? What are your dreams? That is your focus right now. All is well. All is good. Always act from love and the love will spread to the people around you. In time. People are always around you to teach you valuable lessons. Take it in and be thankful for the knowledge they spread. Take it to heart and do what is right for you. Find your core and be who you are. Be at ease and listen within. No shame only love.
S's comment: Listening to myself for the first time is so amazingly correct, no wonder it feels so odd. Thank you so much for confirming what I felt, your answer has helped me realise I am getting closer and closer to my core being, I have been wrestling with this issue for months now and can finally relax and just be in my world instead of questioning so much. Thank you for that peace xxx/S
2012-11-10
Question: Hi, I'd like to know the name of my Spirit Guide and how I best can I ask for guidance.
Thanks./G
Spirit Guides answer: His name is Michael and He speaks to you through your Dreams. Sometimes you don't understand the meaning of your dreams but keep writing down the symbols and clues to your life. The answers you are looking for will come. Keep writing and they will come.
2012-10-26
Question: Hi and thank you for this gift! My husband died very unexpectedly this year. Our daughter is 14. I would like to know anything to help her please. Thank you girls and guides/Jule
Spirit Guides answer: You are not alone. We are here with you to comfort and support you and your daughter. It is hard to understand, for you, what is the meaning of this tragic event. We wish to let you know, there is a meaning to all things in life, no matter how hard they appear. Nothing is meaningless. You need to know this. Your family has extra support from the guides through these hard times. Don't give up. Move on in time. Take your time and ask people for the help that you need to get by. Now is the time to ask for help. Don't manage all by yourself. Light is coming your way.
Jule's comment: It's lovely to be reminded that we have extra support at this time. "Nothing is meaningless" is a beautiful mantra. I do need to ask for more help! Thank you to you and your guides for your help. Jule xx
2012-10-24
Question: How can I hear my guides and angels more clearly? I often feel like our communication is one way! Do you have any tips? /Lily
Answer: We are always here for you and want you to hear and feel our presence. It is our purpose to open a more clear channel for you to communicate through. Be with us, sit in the light and simply ask for our presence. Don't try so hard. Take what you receive and don't push it. It will come naturally if you let it. We are always with you don't doubt it for a second. You are your own most important channel. We wish to spend time with you. Let us in and listen in many ways, it doesn't have to be the way you expect. A song, a letter, a thought an image, an experience in nature. We communicate on many different levels.
Lily's comment: Thank you for your wise words. I will try to spend some time sitting quietly without trying to think about anything and invite my angels in and wait and see. I will be patient and gentle with myself and not force anything. /Lily
October
Question: How do other people see me and why? /Marina
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: Try not to focus on that. You should instead focus on being you. You are a wonderful person with a big heart. You should trust your intuition more than what other people think of you. You have a strong feminine power (girl power). Use it. It's magical.
Marina comments: Thank you I will really try and use my feminine power, it makes me happy to hear it.
Question: I can feel imbalances in my body, causing aches and pains all over, is there anything I can do apart from going to a doctor? /Malin B
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: Your body will heal, you are worn down. At the same time you have a lot of energy which makes you take on more than you can handle. You have to unwind. Sit down and meditate even though you don't have the patience to do so. You have to find your inner balance and search for silent moments. It is important now more than ever when you are so busy. Healing is also good for you. You can go to a healer or heal yourself.
Malin B comments: I am a very active and impatient person. I rarely sit down, not even to watch a film. There is always something to do until I literally fall into bed. Since this I have started to teach my self to sit down and do nothing. It is hard and very difficult to do. I am getting better at it but have yet not perfected it. However I can feel the benefits in my body. My arthorithis in my knees and fingers are not as sore any more. I ask for help in my meditation, mostly for my body to heal so I can do things with and for my children and it works. I was up several times a night with pain before, that is almost all gone. I will change my life, I refuse to be part of this rat race, run in the squirrel wheel etc. I will live my life from now on.
Question: My husband and I have a relationship with many ups and downs, why? Are we meant to be? What are our souls like and what does our future hold? Who is he? /Marina
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: He is there for you but seems to read you and is affected a lot by your moods. He sometimes try to pull away when he doesn't know how to handle his emotions and his feelings for you. He seems like a true-hearted and warm person. But your misunderstandings makes your relationship a bit jumpy. Make sure you are open towards each other and more straight in your communication. Truly open up your heart and explain how you feel so that he really understands. Face each other and be honest. Then all will be fine.
Marina comments: The emotion is beautiful when I read what you have channelled about my husband, he is a true-hearted person who is kind to everyone. You were right about the patterns in our relationship and the way I am towards him. It is frustrating some times
Question: Do I have someone watching over me? /Malin B
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: You have many guardian angels and/or guides. You have a lot of light around you. Many spirits want to come near you. You seem like an "open" person and therefore you can sense them. A woman seems connected to you, possibly your grandmother. She is watching over you and follow you wherever you move. She is kind and considerate, likes your children a lot and pat their little heads when the're asleep. Nothing to worry about, she loves you and cares for you.
Malin B comments: It is wonderful to read what you write about me. Everything rings true. There have been so many different people that have told me my grandmother is watching over me. I love my grandmother and enjoy having her spirit around me. I was afraid she'd left me so I'm glad to know she's still around. I would like her to stay if possible. She gives me strength.
Question: My relationship with my mum is a bit distant, why? How does she see it? How does she want things differently? /Marina
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: You are a person with strong energies which affect people around you, they some times seem a bit taken with you and insecure on how to act around you, some then pull away. She does too. She's confused but loves you. She seems like a gentle and a bit quiet person who awaits your initiative. Take it! Tell her how you feel. She is waiting for you and loves you.
Marina comments: My mum's and my relationship is interesting. I will give it a go...
Question: Is it a wise decision for us to move abroad? /Malin B
Answer by Spirit Guides via Pernilla: It is a choice you're making and every action has consequenses like all choices in life. There is no right or wrong. It seems to me it is something you need (have) to do for a while. (But) I can also see you returning within a few years. Try it! (Everythings is allowed) All is ok. You will find a lot of positives with moving. You will grow as a person and develop as an individual. You will find new roads to travel and be affected by many new exciting persons in a new direction. Perhaps running your own business or working with your hands. Creative work.
Malin B: Moving abroad is something I've wanted for a long time, moving home so to speak. With four children this has been an emotional decision. I've worked within commercial businesses for so long. Done a good job, but never with my heart. My biggest dream is to be able to use my hands, work with what I love, weaving, sowing, knitting, etc etc. Coming to a "new" country I will now do it, for sure.
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