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Are you stuck in your habits or do you explore new things every day? I know I quite often follow my routine, mostly to "survive", but sometimes I get the sense that I live in the Truman show. That it's all fake. That someone is watching me nodding hens head thinking "what is she up to?!". 

What if the world that we live in is all made up? I once read that the world as we know it is only a construction of our limits, priorities and ideas of what we believe is true.

For instance, when you walk down the street you are surrounded by images of trees and houses, people, noises, smells and feelings. But not only that. You are also influenced by energies like electricity, radiation, light, radio signals and other signals we don't even know of. Even more, your own bodily sensations, emotions, memories, senses, illnesses, health issues and what have you.

In order for your brain not to explode it categorizes all these impressions and sorts it into piles of making sense. It decides what is what, and why, according to previous experiences and preferences - even what makes it easiest for you to handle. Whatever it/you can not handle your brain then blocks.

Let's say, for instance, that you're outdoors and a fire truck comes along. Instead of listening to the fire engine's noise you immediately expect the fire engine to look and sound in a certain way, as soon as you see it. 

Or when you se a person, house, animal, anything really, you have preconceived ideas of how they will act. You simply notice them, sort them in your head and don't even pay attention.

This is all well, it is hard to see, hear and smell all things in our wonderful world as if we saw them for the first time. All the time.

But in another sense we miss out on some wonderful new experiences.

Children are wonderful at living now and enjoying the present for the first time. But as we grow older we become experts on categorizing, prejudging, distorting, rutinizing and censorizing all that we see.

We really start living in a fake world!

Ok, hon, don't be sad. Living in a fake world is not so bad. It makes us stay sane. So why am I bringing this up? What should we do about this?

I believe step one is awareness, be aware of this thought or idea of the world, so that you can stop and experience things when you really want to.

Then, pay attention. And practice. Practice on something easy first, like one of your daily routines like brushing your teeth. Lift your toothbrush, put on toothpaste, look at the toothbrush, put it in your mouth, taste the toothpaste, and so on.

That's it. Because it's in the attention that we can see new things. If you like to break this habituation, you need to practice on something easy first.

And if we like, we can then change.

Have a good day, I'm off to brush my teeth conciously! :)

Pernilla
Soultribe



 
 
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Once again we wish to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for all the kind words and generosity that so many of you have poured over us for almost a month now.

We have dreamt of Soultribe together for many months and our hearts have broken open in gratitude every day. Know how much your presence and beautiful support means to us.

It is an honor to meet her with you and exchange laughter and tears. Thank you!

In order to show you our profound gratitude we are so happy to announce the six winners of our give-away. Thank you also to all of you who didn't win a prize. There will be more give-aways!

And the winners are...

1st prize
Nicole S Brown: a 25 min guided meditation and an intuitive reading with Karina

2nd prize
Shannon N Hunter: a Communicate with Your Spirit guide Kit 2 (Premium package)

3rd prize
Lee Koopman: a spot in the Soulful Social Media e-course

4th prize
Robyn Lindsey: a Communicate with Your Spirit Guide Kit 1

5th prize
Jo Cauldrick: an intuitive reading with Pernilla

6th prize
Malin Wittig: a 25 min guided meditation

Congratulations to the winners! We hope you enjoy your gifts. If you wish to buy one of our products or services -either for yourself or as a gift - have a look at this page.

We believe that our inspiring and love soaked readings, kits, e-course and guided meditation are great gifts for someone you love.

Sending you big hugs and so much gratitude,

Pernilla & Karina

 
 
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Watching this image brings back so many memories. Last year in September I decided to go on a 24 hour adventure on my own. After about 5 years with either a child inside my body or glued on it I needed I break.

Don't get me wrong now, I love my kids more than anything and every day I am grateful for having them in my life. But sometimes we need a break even from the good stuff.

My long time dream was to drive up into the mountains and spend the whole day hiking and then sleep outside at night. I had dreamt of the big open spaces, the time alone and the freedom of living at my own rhythm for a very long time and when the day finally came I was so excited.

The drive up to the top of the mountain was gorgeous and so were the first hours of hiking. I truly felt like I was on top of the world and that feeling was awesome. Slowly the reality of being alone started sinking in and after a very long and pretty scary hike down a very (very!) steep slope I arrived at the small cabin I was looking for.

As the day came to its end I started feeling really scared and I spent the whole night freaking out about the weird sounds I was hearing and wondering what the heck I was doing out there in the first place.

In order to stay sane I looked at the stars and took deep breaths.

All night I kept coming back to being in the present moment.

Here and now. Breathe in. Breathe out.


Although my 24 hour adventure didn't turn out as I imagined it I learnt so much from this experience. I believe that we need to challenge ourselves now and then - even when we have no idea what we're doing.

Every time I accept to step out of my comfort zone I grow.

One of my core values is to be free and I am always careful not to get too comfortable and to slip into someone else's life. This is My Most Magnificent Life and that is how I want to live it. I don't buy the images we are being fed with by the media about the "perfect life".

Only I know what my perfect life looks and feels like.

What does your perfect life look and feel like? Are you living it or is it a goal you're trying to reach?

Here are my top 5 ways to challenge yourself:

1. Do something you're afraid of. I'm not into scary sports but a couple of years ago I tried paragliding and it was awesome! I never thought I would dare to do it but I did (= major confidence boost : ).

2. Do something you don't know how to do. And accept to be bad at it or even to get it completely wrong. It's ok to just do something for fun without having to be excellent at it. And who knows, maybe you discover a new talent just because you are so detached from the result?

3. Spend some time with people who are very different from you. Recently I've discovered that I only hang out with people who have the same values/style/outlook on life as me. This is great fun but I also love talking to people who have lives that are very different from mine. They help me see myself more clearly and they also challenge my beliefs.

4. Spend 24 hours alone. Maybe this isn't such a big deal if you live on your own but for all of you moms, dads and love birds out there - this can be a pretty big challenge.

5. Write down all your Big Dreams and then choose one that you will bring to life. Even huge dreams that you never thought were possible count. Start today and spend some time every day visualizing your dream coming true. Remember that anything is possible, sweatheart! Even Big Dreams are created one baby step at a time.

Thank you for being You! You are so Beautiful and your gifts are precious. By living Your Life you inspire others to do the same.

Important Reminder!
You have 4 more days to join us for the big Give-Away. The winners will be announced on Monday November 5th and I've decided to throw in my brand new Communicate with your Spirit Guide kits 1 and 2 (premium package!) as well. Find out all about the Give-Away here.

So please keep sharing, liking, tweeting and writing about Soultribe and let us know here how many points you've reached by Monday.

Sending you lots of big hugs from Corsica,

Karina

 

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